A little one having a tantrum often is very difficult to deal with because it makes it tricky for parents to temper their personal anger or embarrassment. Dealing with tantrums can actually become a thing you know how to stop at the moment and in the long run. To accomplish this, you need to observe 10 essential steps.
Here they are:
1. Be relaxed. You should not feed your little one's frustration.
2. Never give in. Never. You said no, it is no.
3. Anticipate ! You should not go out with your little one if he is tired or hungry. Ensure that he eats and sleeps before, and then go out. There is always a reason to a tantrum.
4. If the cause is frustration, tell him you understand. Express compassion and provide an alternative. It's this or nothing. Dealing with tantrums the best way demands that you are firm but compassionate.
5. At the beginning of the tantrum, attempt to distract your kid by showing him something, propose to do something different. Just make your child focus on something else. You need to react quickly.
6. Many times, a tantrum happens when a child needs more attention and cuddling. Try to take him in your arms, reassure him, it will calm him. Your presence and cuddles can help him stop and be aware you're not against him even when you say no.
7. A little while after the tantrum, before going to bed or during a quiet moment, speak about the tantrum that happened with your kid. Let him express what he felt, be sure he understands you don't admit such behaviour but that you love him.
8. Dealing with tantrums is also about rewarding a good behaviour. Your kid will easily comprehend he will gain nothing from tantrums.
9. In case that the tantrum happens in a public place, leave that place with your kid. He needs to understand all the implications his behaviour brings.
10. Allow him the right to have feelings such as anger and frustration, be sure to tell him you feel such feelings too but you express them with words and choose to talk as an alternative to throwing tantrums. Be sure to tell him he can do the same.
Dealing with tantrums is about emotional self control first and examples to help your kid make the choice of a good behavior and once and for all stop tantrums. When tantrums already are a really deep habit in your kid, a parenting guide can help dealing with this and getting rid of all the other issues that might be the reason of persistent tantrums. The link in my bio might help you, it's a web site I built with some parents where we evaluate parenting methods that worked for us. It's not too late!
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